Entitled to His Money, But What About His Respect?

Are we Settling for Financial Security Over Respect? Let’s Talk About It

Welcome back to Filtered Therapy! Today, we’re diving into something I think a lot of people can relate to, even if they might not want to admit it. Have you ever found yourself valuing the material perks of a relationship over how you’re actually being treated? Let’s unpack this double standard and talk about why it’s so common to expect financial stability but settle when it comes to respect.

The Double Standard: Money Over Good Behavior?

It’s not a new concept: we see people all over social media talk about wanting a partner who’s financially secure. But is this focus on money causing us to lose sight of something just as important – respect? Think about it. If we’re willing to accept financial perks but let good behavior slide, are we valuing our lifestyle over our own dignity? Shouldn’t we expect both? There’s no shame in wanting financial stability. But have we started setting lower standards for how we’re treated just because there’s money involved? Too often, it seems like we’re saying, “As long as you’re providing financially, everything else can be overlooked.” But should it really be this way?

Self-Worth and Expectations

At the core of this conversation is Self-worth. What message are we sending when we prioritize gifts, dinners, and luxury but brush aside the lack of respect? If someone doesn’t value your time, isn’t kind, or doesn’t treat you with loyalty, is the financial security worth it? This isn’t about shaming anyone for wanting a stable partner; it’s about questioning if we’re settling for financial security at the expense of emotional well-being. Let’s start asking ourselves, “Does this person offer more than just financial support? Do they genuinely respect and value me?”

Final Thoughts: Setting Standards Beyond Material Things

So, what can we do about this double standard? Start by setting boundaries and standards beyond just the material. It’s okay to want financial stability, but remember that you’re also entitled to respect, kindness, and a genuine connection. Na collabo and trust me babess... YOU DESERVE IT ALL! not just one over the other. Let’s rethink what we feel “entitled” to in relationships. You deserve a partner who treats you with respect and offers you stability – not one or the other. After all, money can’t replace true partnership or emotional security. Don’t settle; you deserve it all.